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Verified dating app, real people only

A verified dating app checks that every person is real before they can contact you. On MatureMeet, every member takes a selfie that is matched to their photos and confirms a phone number before sending a message. Members can also add an ID check for an extra badge.

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Why verification matters so much after 40

Fake profiles are one of the most common complaints about online dating, and they are how many romance scams begin. When you are over 40 or 50, you do not have time to wonder whether the person you are talking to exists. Verification answers that question before the first hello.

How verification works on MatureMeet

  • Selfie check.

    You take a short live selfie in your browser. We check that it is a live person, not a photo of a photo, and that it matches your profile pictures.

  • Phone check.

    You confirm a mobile number with a text code. One number, one account.

  • ID badge, optional.

    You can add a photo ID check. When it passes, an ID badge shows on your profile.

  • Reverse image check.

    Every new profile photo is compared with known scam pictures and other accounts.

  • Ongoing checks.

    We may ask a member to verify again, for example after a report or a big change of photos.

Only members who pass the selfie and phone checks can send messages.

What the badges mean

Verified What it means Passed the selfie check matched to profile photos and the phone check
ID verified What it means Also passed an optional photo ID check
VIP What it means A VIP Concierge member, with a profile reviewed by a matchmaker

You can filter your matches to show ID-verified members only.

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Your privacy during verification

We use your selfie only to check that you are real and that your photos are you. We keep the result of the check, and we delete the selfie and face data within 30 days. ID photos are deleted within 30 days of the check. We never show your selfie, your phone number or your ID to other members, and we never sell your data. Read our Privacy Policy for the details.

Safe dating over 50 needs more than a badge

Verification keeps out most fake accounts, but a real person can still behave badly. That is why MatureMeet also has:

  • a scam shield that warns you about money requests, gift cards, crypto and pressure to leave the site,
  • one-tap report and block on every profile and conversation,
  • a safety team that reviews reports, within 2 hours for VIP Concierge members,
  • member rules that every person agrees to.

Learn more about dating romance scams and our online dating safety tips.

Made for grown-ups

MatureMeet is a verified dating app for singles from 40 to 80 who want a real relationship. It runs in the web browser on any phone, tablet or computer. If you are looking for a mature dating site where people are who they say they are, this is it.

Plans

Premium is $39 a month, or $19 a month billed yearly at $228. VIP Concierge is $149 a month, or $74 a month billed yearly at $888. Verification is included in both. See all mature dating site pricing.

Questions about verified dating

What does verified mean on a dating app?

On MatureMeet it means the member passed a live selfie check matched to their photos and confirmed a phone number. Some members also add an ID check.

Do I have to show my ID?

No. The ID check is optional. The selfie and phone checks are required to send messages.

Can other members see my selfie or phone number?

No. They see only your badge.

How long does verification take?

Usually a few minutes. If a check needs a closer look, we let you know by email.

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