How online dating over 40 works on MatureMeet
On MatureMeet you first see a preview of your matches, then create an account, verify with a selfie and your phone, and answer a compatibility test. After that you message verified members, swap voice notes and video intros, and meet when it feels right. Here is each step in plain words.
No email needed to see your preview.
Step 1. See your match preview
Tell us if you are a man or a woman, who you would like to meet, your age range, your city or ZIP code and what you are looking for. Tap See my matches. In a few seconds you see how your matches look near you, with a compatibility score on each card. No email is needed.
Step 2. Create your account
Enter your email and a password. We send a 6-digit code to your email to confirm it is you. Then you choose Premium or VIP Concierge and pay securely. You can pay monthly or yearly.
Step 3. Verify and build your profile
- Take a quick selfie. We match it to your photos to confirm you are real.
- Confirm your phone number with a text code.
- Add the optional ID check if you want an ID badge.
- Add 3 to 6 recent photos.
- Choose your intention: long-term, marriage, companionship or friendship first.
- Add a 60-second video intro, if you like. It helps people feel at ease.
Step 4. Take the compatibility test
The test has 40 short questions about the things that matter after 40: family, money habits, faith, free time, where you want to live and how you handle conflict. You can do it in one go or a few at a time. Your answers turn into a compatibility score and plain-English reasons for each match.
Step 5. Discover and talk
Browse verified members near you, sorted by compatibility. Filter by age, distance, intention or ID badge. When you like someone, send a message or a voice note of up to 2 minutes. The scam shield quietly checks messages and warns you if something looks like a known scam.
Step 6. Meet, in person or at an event
When it feels right, meet somewhere public that you both like. Or start in a group at an event for singles over 40 and 50 near you. Read our online dating safety tips before your first date.
Want someone to do the searching for you?
With VIP Concierge, a real matchmaker holds an intake call with you, reviews your profile, hand-picks up to 4 introductions a month with a written reason for each, and helps plan the date. Learn more about our matchmaking service for over 50.
Easy to use, even if you do not love technology
- Large text and big, clear buttons
- Voice notes instead of typing
- Works in the browser on your phone, tablet or computer, nothing to install
- Help from a real person at support@maturemeet.com
Questions about how it works
How long does it take to set up a profile?
Most people finish the basics in about 15 minutes. You can take the compatibility test later.
Can I see members before I pay?
You can run one free match preview to see how your matches look near you. Messaging and full profiles need a plan.
Do I have to use video?
No. Video intros and video calls are optional. They help because they show the real person.
See our mature dating site pricing or read the MatureMeet FAQ.
Meet someone worth your time
Tell us who you would like to meet and see your matches in a minute. No email needed for the preview.